About three years ago, for different reasons (including not having a television anymore), I stopped watching the news. It kinda happened one day, without even noticing it. No more newspapers, online news, tellie, nada. The first year was a bit awkward, balancing between the guilt of not keeping myself up to "what's happening in the world" and the leisure of not bothering with wars and deaths that had become a daily feed of "information".
For those is still trust the news, here's a funny example from the USA :
Thanks to social media and not being completely isolated, I still would hear of "the big news" through friends. But I would not longer fill myself with atrocities that people continuously perpetrated among each other.
I want to believe that there's good in everyone but that fear turns us in monsters. The fear of being not loved, the fear of dying, the fear of missing something, of losing someone or something you love…
I also believe that we have the possibility, if not the power, to love ourselves and others. The ability to be at peace with ourselves. On that road, many helpers are found. Some people walk on it thanks to meditation. Others open themselves through arts. Nature can as well help to build a connection with oneself and free him/her of all the fears that person carries.
It's a beautiful road made of mirrors to teach us about the human-nature. On that path, fighting reveals itself in its true self : a fear we are so deeply possessed with that hurting becomes the only option. Once at peace and connected to ourselves, the fight becomes an item from the past and we can focus on a new future.
Now let's be honest, it's not an easy road. But it's filled with small "insignificant" delights of life. Even if I write this now, I'm on the road myself. Maybe I'll never be completely at peace, but in the meantime, I enjoy this road so much I wanted to share it with you. It's a joyful roller-coaster that keeps me on my toes and interrogate me on my life and the choice I make.
I'll end the post with a film suggestion : Wag the dog. It's a 1997 film by Larry Beinhart and starring Dustin Hoffman and Robert De Niro. The start line is : let's "make up a war" to cover a politician's blunder. Although the subject is media falsification, the film sees it with a comedy angle that turn the whole story of creating a war into a big joke.